Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Today is the 14th July 2009 . I should say i'm pretty impressed by what love alone can do .

Realized i haven't log in my Friendster account for quite some time, so this morning, i signed in . I took a look at the updates list and saw one of my car friend's display picture . He had his car decals changed, from something very sporty to a less sporty look, and his marital status back to single .

We were good friends, though we don't talk anymore .

And this is what he said in his friendster blog :

"There are two days in every week, about which we should not worry, two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension. One of these days is Yesterday with all its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control. All the money in the world cannot bring back Yesterday. We cannot undo a single act we performed. We cannot erase a single word we said.

Yesterday is gone forever.

The other day we should not worry about is Tomorrow with all its possible adversities, its burdens, its large promise and its poor performance. Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control. Tomorrow’s sun will rise, either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise. Until it does, we have no stake in Tomorrow, for it is yet to be born.

This leaves only one day, Today. Any person can fight the battle of just one day. It is when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternities Yesterday and Tomorrow that we break down. It is not the experience of Today that drives a person mad, it is the remorse or bitterness of something which happened Yesterday and the dread of what Tomorrow may bring. Let us, therefore, live but one day at a time. "


I read, kept quiet for a moment, shut my laptop and went ahead to school .


Back home, i switched on my laptop again, surfed, and saw another friend of mine on Facebook who wrote this :


"应该是恋爱了。
我觉得幸福了。。。

他不是我心中理想的男人。
但,我却莫名的爱上了他。

这就是爱吗?
让我失去理智?

有人说怎么有一个爱我的男人,我不要?

因为,爱。
爱让我觉得一切都不那么重要了。
即使住组屋。
即使驾着我的小车。
即使可能一辈子打工。
只要俩人携手,也能打造一个天地。

爸爸说我被爱情触电到了。

爱,是多么奇妙的!
我感觉好幸福!
看看我们幸福的照片。。。"


And she ended off with a picture of her kissing her current boyfriend .


So then i thought, how powerful love is . Having the ability to change us human's life with almost immediate effect . From being a happy person, to someone ever so sad and lonely, lost his original character, from being a normal single lady working her life away, to someone so happy sleeping with smiles on her face .


As yet, i still couldn't define this very word, and break it down to truly understand what it means, to love someone . All i know is there're some people around me i can't live without, and i would use my life to save theirs', no matter what happens, even if it is to die a slow torturous death .


May god bless all .

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